This is the final post in our series on narcissistic relationships. If you’ve read the earlier posts on understanding narcissism, recognizing the relationship cycle, identifying manipulation tactics, and understanding why the impact runs so deep, you’re ready for the final step, where we learn what helps with healing. The answer is both challenging and hopeful. …
If you’ve been following our series on narcissistic relationships, you’ve learned about the patterns and manipulation tactics that characterize these dynamics. Now let’s talk about why the impact runs so deep and why ‘just moving on’ isn’t as simple as it sounds. “Just get over it.” “Why do you still talk about your ex?” “It …
If you’ve read about the narcissistic relationship cycle, you might be wondering about the specific tactics that make you question your own reality. That’s what we’re covering here. “Did that really happen the way I remember it?” “Maybe I am overreacting.” “Why can’t I ever get anything right?” If these thoughts have become your constant …
This post builds on our overview of narcissistic personality disorder. If you’re trying to make sense of the push-pull dynamic in your relationship, understanding the typical cycle can help you see what’s happening more clearly. You met someone amazing. They made you feel special, seen, and understood. Then, almost overnight, everything changed. Now you’re walking …
Your partner cancels dinner plans again because something “more important” came up. When you express disappointment, they turn it around until you’re apologizing for being needy. Later, when they need support, they expect you to drop everything. You find yourself constantly walking on eggshells, wondering if this time you’ll get warmth or coldness. If this …
I love working with couples. Despite being more complex than individual therapy, it is profoundly rewarding to assist a couple in finding renewed connection with their partner and with themselves. It is here, in the partnership, that each partner sees themself as they are and not just how they want to be. It is here, …
At the heart of every strong connection, whether it’s with a romantic partner, family member, or best friend, is a sense of emotional safety. It’s what makes us feel like we can open up, show how we really feel, and be met with care instead of criticism. But if you’ve experienced inconsistent caregiving or been …
Relationships can be a beautiful source of love, connection, and personal growth. But when the balance of power shifts—whether due to people-pleasing, insecurity, or unhealthy relationship dynamics—it’s easy to feel like you’ve lost control of your life. Taking power back isn’t about gaining the upper hand or creating a power struggle. It’s about self-respect, setting …
You notice your partner freeze when a car backfires outside. They wake up from nightmares but won’t talk about what they dreamed. Simple things like crowds or unexpected sounds make them tense in ways that break your heart. You want to help, but you’re not sure how to reach them when they seem so far …
Co-parenting can feel like uncharted territory after a divorce or separation. It’s about working as a team with your ex-partner to provide your child with a stable, loving environment, even though your relationship has ended. While this process is challenging, prioritizing your child’s well-being is the key to their security. Effective co-parenting requires communication, consistency, …
Dating again after a divorce can be both exciting and intimidating. It’s a new chapter in your life, and while it might feel daunting, it’s essential to approach it with an open heart and mind. Here are some tips to help you navigate the process of starting over and dating after divorce: Give Yourself Time …
Even the most loving couples struggle. Maybe you keep having the same argument in different forms. Maybe one of you withdraws while the other pushes for more connection. You might feel frustrated, hurt, or even hopeless, wondering how things got so complicated when you care about each other so deeply. The truth is, relationship conflict …
Relationships, whether with a romantic partner, a best friend, a family member, or a co-worker, are central to our emotional wellness. They can bring love, support, and a sense of belonging. But when communication breaks down or boundaries are not respected, even the most loving connection can leave you feeling drained, confused, or resentful. Maybe …
Codependency can quietly affect your relationships and mental health, sometimes without you even noticing. You may think you’re just being helpful or supportive. But when your identity and emotional well-being become tied to someone else’s approval or stability, it can create an unhealthy and exhausting dynamic. In codependent relationships, one person may rely on another …
Marriage is one of the most meaningful commitments you can make. Love provides a strong foundation, but it takes more than love alone to create a healthy, lasting partnership. Honest conversations before marriage help couples understand each other more deeply and avoid conflicts that can strain a relationship later on. Here are five essential questions …
Why do some relationships make you feel energized and supported while others leave you doubting yourself or feeling disconnected? In his book Deeper Dating, therapist Ken Page explores this idea through three key concepts: These ideas can help us understand the types of relationships we’re drawn to and how to cultivate healthier, more fulfilling connections. What …